Saturday, July 11, 2009

Break Up

I broke up with K.

We had been dating for 4 months, and for the last 1.5 months he pulled away and I saw his true colors. In the end, he turned into a complete jerk and I realized it is better for me to be alone than to be together with him and unhappy almost all the time. The first 2.5 months of our relationship were amazing, but the constant tears, fights/arguments and lack of communication for the last 1.5 months has been too much to handle.

I know this is good for me - once I get over the heart break... :(


savings July 11, 2009 at 6:53 PM  

even if it's the right thing to do, breakups are hard. :-(

TeacHer July 11, 2009 at 7:43 PM  

He's not worth it, truly. I have such a hard time saying goodbye, but there is always someone better around the corner, even if it doesn't seem like it right now.

Let yourself be sad for a while, but know that you made the right decision.

Anonymous July 12, 2009 at 10:58 AM  

congrats! three cheers for self-esteem!

Sallie's Niece July 12, 2009 at 2:13 PM  

I'm sorry to hear you're going through that. Breakups can be so rough, even if you know it wasn't meant to be. Take some 'me' time and feel better.

HighClassLowIncome July 12, 2009 at 3:07 PM  

Sorry to hear.. in the end it'll be a blessing in disguise! Keep your head up and take the time to enjoy yourself and the company of your friends!

Distar July 12, 2009 at 6:49 PM  

good for you for knowing you deserve much better.

wishing you a speedy recovery from the heartache.

Money Maus July 12, 2009 at 7:16 PM  

Thank you all for the kind comments!

Anonymous July 13, 2009 at 2:47 PM  

Aw, I am so sorry to read this. :( That's a hard thing to do but it sounds like you'll be much better for having done it. Give yourself a little time to grieve and then stop and start living life as fully as you can.

Small Budget, Big Style Chick July 14, 2009 at 10:29 AM  

Break ups are difficult, but you have the right attitude, keep you head up!

mapgirl July 14, 2009 at 11:17 AM  

Life is to short to be unhappy with the wrong guy. :-)

Anonymous July 15, 2009 at 8:56 PM  

Sorry to hear! But as everyone's reminded you, you're better off now. And with each new relationship, you'll learn more about what you want, and what you don't want!

Just Me July 22, 2009 at 5:03 PM  

Breakups are hard and def allow yourself to spend a weekend crying, reminescing etc and then get back out there :) That saying that you hear and sometimes pisses you off because it doesnt sound right at the time, but in reality it is.. "everything happens for a reason" and better things come around :)

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